Brainstorming Session
9:30 AM
hokeh... aku di persimpangan dilema ni nak masukkan anak aku kat mana.. choices are....
1) Tadika Islam Mawaddah
Pros :
- depan umah jek.. klu jenguk ikut tingkap leh ler nampak skolah tu..
- ada swings, playground kat luar..
- bebudak stay sampai petang.. lepas skolah ada iqra', makan, tido, bangun, mandi, makan, aktiviti bebas (main, tgk tv, wat keje skola, etc..)
- klu aku mc, tak perlu memontengkan bebudak skali sebab skola dekat jek..
- budak dua tu memang berkenan bebeno ler dengan skolah tu, aritu pegi sampai takmo balik pehtu siap pesan nanti mai lagi.. they were really excited about going to that school.. cuma... kakak pesan "umi amik kakak cepat tau.."
- aku tak penat amik budak terus balik tak perlu nak stay2.. klu tunggu dalam kete pun cikgu antokan ke kete..
- klu baby pun masuk skola tu, baby leh dapat murah RM230 instead of RM250 sebab ada adik badik...
- ada fardhu ain, bahasa arab, english, bm, maths, iqra'...
- aku dah bayar deposit RM500 untuk skolah ni..
Cons :
- mak pak aku kecit ati sebab x bagi depa jaga so akan bermula balik fasa kemerajukan dan kemakanan-atian
- aku kena deal dgn bapak budak2 tu balik
- yuran sebulan untuk dua orang RM540 x 10 bulan = RM5400 + (first payment RM550 x 2 org) = RM6500 setahun... (xde bulan 12 sebab parents aku jaga).
2) Genius Aulad
Pros :
- totally in english, very interactive and fun way of delivering the lessons..
- assessment based... pencapaian dinilai berdasarkan sejauh mana depa tangkap apa yg diajar.. takde examination so tak perlu risau pasal cikgu tolong masa exam..
- cikgu dia cakap by std 1 at least budak2 tu boleh hafal surah2 lazim..
- syllabus sama je macam tadika islam mawaddah cuma lebih exposure pada english language..
- its a SCHOOL bukan taska so budak2 macam pergi sekolah la.. meaning, lebih equal dalam derang punya assessment, difference cuma pada mak bapak punya approach to what they have learnt in school..
- yuran untuk dua orang sebulan : RM476 x 10 bulan = RM4760 + (first payment RM665 x 2) = RM6090 setahun.. (xde bulan 12 sebab parents aku jaga).
- masih boleh sub kan segala communications dengan bapak derg pada pak aku...
- i can maintain good relationship with my parents..
Cons :
- letaknyer di usj 21, which, although memang on my route to work akan tetapi a quite congested route! mean, i have to go out earlier and tak bley nak take my own sweet time macam sekarang..
- balik sekolah pak aku amik so aku kena amik kat umah dia so kena detour sket... plak tu takleh singgah kejap trus balik, dah penah kena komplen so kena singgah lepak2 jap baru balik.. which time consuming, aku balik nak kena masak lagik.. letih ar... kalau masak kat umah derg lak takut in future muncul lak sore2 sumbang kata kami takde duit tu yg nak masak kat umah derg...
- to my question pasal kalau papa ada kerja and tak dapat nak amik budak2 takkan nak suh derg monteng (macam sekarang laa.. asal xleh amik suh budak monteng), he said "next year im going to have another car so mummy can fetch them." and that answer also raised questions like "exactly when plak nak beli kete tu" and knowing mummy's fickled mood, can she really take care of 4 kids while papa not around??
- klu my parents start making outrageous demand (like the international school case), nanti aku start tensen dan bila aku tensen, aku akan tertensenkan boo and despite his patience all these while, masa jek yg boleh menentukan tahap kesabaran dia, and i so DO NOT want him to exceed that limit..
aku dah ada dua vote untuk pilihan yang mana satu... dan aku rasa dah tau cenderung ke mana... just that nak dengar lagi pendapat orang len...
were u in my shoes, what would your vote be?
1) Tadika Islam Mawaddah
Pros :
- depan umah jek.. klu jenguk ikut tingkap leh ler nampak skolah tu..
- ada swings, playground kat luar..
- bebudak stay sampai petang.. lepas skolah ada iqra', makan, tido, bangun, mandi, makan, aktiviti bebas (main, tgk tv, wat keje skola, etc..)
- klu aku mc, tak perlu memontengkan bebudak skali sebab skola dekat jek..
- budak dua tu memang berkenan bebeno ler dengan skolah tu, aritu pegi sampai takmo balik pehtu siap pesan nanti mai lagi.. they were really excited about going to that school.. cuma... kakak pesan "umi amik kakak cepat tau.."
- aku tak penat amik budak terus balik tak perlu nak stay2.. klu tunggu dalam kete pun cikgu antokan ke kete..
- klu baby pun masuk skola tu, baby leh dapat murah RM230 instead of RM250 sebab ada adik badik...
- ada fardhu ain, bahasa arab, english, bm, maths, iqra'...
- aku dah bayar deposit RM500 untuk skolah ni..
Cons :
- mak pak aku kecit ati sebab x bagi depa jaga so akan bermula balik fasa kemerajukan dan kemakanan-atian
- aku kena deal dgn bapak budak2 tu balik
- yuran sebulan untuk dua orang RM540 x 10 bulan = RM5400 + (first payment RM550 x 2 org) = RM6500 setahun... (xde bulan 12 sebab parents aku jaga).
2) Genius Aulad
Pros :
- totally in english, very interactive and fun way of delivering the lessons..
- assessment based... pencapaian dinilai berdasarkan sejauh mana depa tangkap apa yg diajar.. takde examination so tak perlu risau pasal cikgu tolong masa exam..
- cikgu dia cakap by std 1 at least budak2 tu boleh hafal surah2 lazim..
- syllabus sama je macam tadika islam mawaddah cuma lebih exposure pada english language..
- its a SCHOOL bukan taska so budak2 macam pergi sekolah la.. meaning, lebih equal dalam derang punya assessment, difference cuma pada mak bapak punya approach to what they have learnt in school..
- yuran untuk dua orang sebulan : RM476 x 10 bulan = RM4760 + (first payment RM665 x 2) = RM6090 setahun.. (xde bulan 12 sebab parents aku jaga).
- masih boleh sub kan segala communications dengan bapak derg pada pak aku...
- i can maintain good relationship with my parents..
Cons :
- letaknyer di usj 21, which, although memang on my route to work akan tetapi a quite congested route! mean, i have to go out earlier and tak bley nak take my own sweet time macam sekarang..
- balik sekolah pak aku amik so aku kena amik kat umah dia so kena detour sket... plak tu takleh singgah kejap trus balik, dah penah kena komplen so kena singgah lepak2 jap baru balik.. which time consuming, aku balik nak kena masak lagik.. letih ar... kalau masak kat umah derg lak takut in future muncul lak sore2 sumbang kata kami takde duit tu yg nak masak kat umah derg...
- to my question pasal kalau papa ada kerja and tak dapat nak amik budak2 takkan nak suh derg monteng (macam sekarang laa.. asal xleh amik suh budak monteng), he said "next year im going to have another car so mummy can fetch them." and that answer also raised questions like "exactly when plak nak beli kete tu" and knowing mummy's fickled mood, can she really take care of 4 kids while papa not around??
- klu my parents start making outrageous demand (like the international school case), nanti aku start tensen dan bila aku tensen, aku akan tertensenkan boo and despite his patience all these while, masa jek yg boleh menentukan tahap kesabaran dia, and i so DO NOT want him to exceed that limit..
aku dah ada dua vote untuk pilihan yang mana satu... dan aku rasa dah tau cenderung ke mana... just that nak dengar lagi pendapat orang len...
were u in my shoes, what would your vote be?
aku vote 4 tadika mawaddah... tak menyusahkan hidup hg...
tak memenatkan...
lagi satu... budak2 tak de la tertekan sgt...
wokeh toce toce... tunggu vote len plak..
our children our life.
[ our = husband (as in father) n me (as in mother)]
i vote where we (as the father n mother) can be at the most autonomous of our children.
not that i m denying grandparents role or love or what so ever.. just that.. i would want to have my very own exclusive role as a parent.. and i would want to be autonomous of my children too.
i take it you are voting for no 1 then? wokeh.. that is 4 votes oredi for no 1..
Honestly, aku vote for mawaddah...they are your children, so you take FULL responsibility of their wellbeings. Bukan maksudnya tak kasi derang manja2 ngan atok n nenek diorang, but I think it is time that you take full charge of them now instead of sub contract the responsibilities to your parents.
I'm sorry to say this, tapi ko pun salu gak stress bila parents ko saga sort of campurtangan dalam urusan seharian ko,esp when it involves the children. Part of the problem, the way I see it is bcoz your parents rasa ada HAK utk interfere bila mereka selalu je kena jaga bebudak tu...don't get me wrong, bukan aku nak suh ko putuskan hubungan dengan parents ko, but I think it's time that you take full charge of your veryday decisions.
Kalau dulu, mungkin ya bcoz ko single mother, terkontang kanting struggling to make the ends meet. But now you are somebody's wife, and would start a new family...so it's time to grow...
I am 24 by 7, 30 days, 365 days per year with my own kids...it's crazy, nak mc pun takleh....of course I know it's double or triple tough for you coz you work, but trust me, there are a lot more people in the same boat as you do, and they made it allright...
Bottom line is, bebudak still leh manja2 ngan granpa n granma, but you call all the shots....tapi ko kena la diplomasi when dealing with your parents...memang depa akan rasa kecik ati, offended etc etc, but in the long run, it is for your own good...
my two cents...
halamak kenapa tetiba ada saga lak lam ayat aku ekk ??? ignore the saga OK...cursor notebook aku ni giler, sesuka ati jer terbang kat tempat lain masa aku siok2 typing....choiiii nak kena tuko notebook la nehhhhhhhhh....mana la nak cari notebook made in china....
umang aiiiii panjangnye komen... ngeeehehehe.. wokeh2 points taken... 5 votes oredi...
tahnyer.. blog jadi bloH... duhhhhh.... hahhahaa..
aku setuju ngan bolian 800%.... (weh buku kasi poton 80% eik)
kuang kuang kuang
den setuju dgn mereka2 yg setuju.. maka den dpt rege at 8% ek?
vote yang paling pertama tu aku punya ek...
pasal ex tu... sooner or later ko kena berdepan dengan dia jugak..
tak perlu gaduh-gaduh dah.. ko cakaplembut je dgn dia.. kalau org lembut, takkan dia tengking-mengking lagi... lama-lama cool down lah sementelah dia nengok peyut ko pun makin muncit... huhu aku lagi selim lah kiranya...
wokehlah gitu.. i guess its conclusive then.. baru konpiden cikit nak face my parents... utk menyedapkan ati papa semalam masa dia bitau tu i said i will take the kids to see genius aulad tu tengok derg ske ke idak.. to turn them down i need valid ground and i kenot just say "i dont want u to day care for them coz u're spoiling them" or "if they stay with u all they do after skool is watch otomen, cartoon, tv, batman, spedemen, all the men"..
before register kat mawaddah tu pun ada pegi PASTI.. situ murah sikit klu dari pagi ke petang sorg cuma 230.. pehtu siap ada solat zuhur, asar berjemaah lagi... tapi maksalahnya liesa tak ske sebab ada sorg boy ni umo 5 thn was being tooooo frenly... keep asking her.. "awak nape takmo masuk sini? skola la sini, sini best tawww"... which makes her shy and uncomfortable.. iman lak klu dah kakak x ske lagi dia x ske.. so to say that i randomly choose school pun tak bleh gak sebab i did give them option and they still choose mawaddah..
liesa keep saying "bila kakak umo 5 thn, kakak skolah dekat umah ta.. bila kakak umo 6 thn kakak nk skolah dkt umah umi"... pehtu bila cakap nanti baby pun skolah dgn kakak, dia excited sangat.... knowing what she wants is not a problem.. nk face my parents tu yg kena strong sket refusing to yield to their wishes... apa pun.. caiyok caiyok...
aaa pasai ex tu.. dia takde tengking2 aku.. aku yg ske tengking2 dia... memang takmo baik2 dengan dia pon... burwahahahhaa....